PERSONAL COACHING - SET UP
Strongly consider using a Habit Tracker - Click here for details and options.
Determine that when you hit a bump you will get back on the horse. It’s common to take 3 steps forward and 2 steps back. Don't panic. Just keep going. Victory isn't necessarily for the strongest, or the smartest, or the best looking. It's for those who do not quit.
Decide (individually) how much time and presence you will give toward improving your marriage
Every day of the 21 day path and actions is crucial. You may also feel inspired to do additional reading, watch related videos, do extra steps etc. Even 5 or 10 extra minutes of extra attention a day can make a world of difference. Is she worth it? Is he worth it? Are your children worth it?21 Days and other Couples GPS, Solo. It only takes one. Miracles can happen because of one person. If your spouse, after your invitation, chooses not to join you in this, do the best you can on your own! For instance, there are quite a few writing and sharing opportunities. After you’ve written, share with your Heavenly Father. As things improve you could, as inspired, let your spouse know you’re still working on the program, you don’t expect her participation but, “would you will willing to let me at least share insights and breakthroughs I’m having in connection with my writing?” As long as what you share is positive, is clearly about you, and does not in any way implicate your spouse, this can often be very positive- even things don’t work out between you.